Your wedding ceremony is all about you and your partner. So take time planning your ceremony to reflect the love you have for each other. But if you want to create a more meaningful ceremony for both of you, embrace the things that make your partnership unique and celebrate them with your friends and family. So, what can you include to make your marriage ceremony more meaningful and memorable?
Forget the formula
You may like to include some wedding traditions, such as walking down the aisle. But, this is your wedding, you can include what you want, both old and new traditions. You can tweak or replace them to make them work for you. So, ask yourself, what does your ceremony look like?
Include personal stories
“Personal stories are the heart of the ceremony and make it the most meaningful, enjoyable and memorable. Without this element, it becomes a lot of words with little impact.” Celebrant from Celebrant Aotearoa
Throughout the ceremony, include personal stories about you and your partner. For example, the celebrant could tell your guests why you chose a song, reading, flowers or colour scheme. Let your guests be fully immersed in the importance of the details so they can celebrate them with you.
Include loved ones
There are many roles where you can include loved ones in the ceremony. And if you don’t know what role they will play, make one up! When you ask loved ones to be involved, it is something that they will never forget either. So, think of the people (or pets) who are important in your life, and how can you get them to play a role in your ceremony?
Choose music that you like
The music sets the tone for the wedding. So make sure to include a range of songs you and your partner love. Here are a few ideas on how to incorporate them:
- Choose songs your partner loves to help them relax as they wait for you to walk up the aisle.
- Do an instrumental version of the song if the words aren’t suitable for a wedding ceremony.
- Get a friend to play or sing a song that you love.
- Once the wedding ceremony is finished, choose a fun song to walk down the aisle together.
- For more music ideas for your wedding ceremony, read our blog here.
Choose a celebrant you connect with
Write your own vows
Include cultural traditions or symbolic rituals
Have the ceremony in a meaningful place
Is there a place that holds meaning for you and your partner? Then, holding your ceremony at that place, if allowed, will make it all the more special. Just remember, if you plan to have it in a public place in New Zealand, seek permission from the local council or land owners.
Keep it small and personal
The one thing that COVID taught us is that small weddings create a more personal and meaningful ceremony allowing you to celebrate your love in front of the people who truly matter in your life. Then, after the small ceremony, celebrate with all your friends and family at a larger wedding reception.
Finally, have fun!
“There is no such thing as perfect. Go with the flow in the day and embrace whatever happens.” Celebrant from Celebrant Aotearoa
This is your special day, so go out there and enjoy it!
However you choose to personalise your wedding ceremony, contact a celebrant from Celebrants Aotearoa to help you plan a bespoke ceremony that allows you to incorporate your personality and style to create a truly memorable day.
This content was originally published here.